What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a caring touch loaded with attention and presence, without a standard type and fixed result. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body takes part and erogenous zones can also be touched. Of course, always with regard for (shared) limits. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection between massage giver and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and often even at the depths of heart and soul. The purpose of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, thrilled state of being. The impact is frequently a fantastic physical, psychological well-being. Usually, the receiver is really relaxed, incredibly streaming and winding up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is all about Caring touch
A tantric massage is a caring touch complete of attention and existence. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. The majority of touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is in fact enjoy that touches. The hands of the giver are gotten in touch with his/her heart. The touch is caring, constantly concentrated on the well-being of the receiver. The recipient is likewise present, and gets active and likewise feels (ultimately) from the heart. Be caring!
Filled with attention and existence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch complete of attention and existence. Don't look around or being busy with something else, no, your full attention is on providing or receiving the massage. Tantra massage is not about regular, set patterns are in fact out of the concern.
A tantric massage isn't about a predetermined outcome
A tantric massage will always be different. It is not the strategy or the wanted series of massaging that is important, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be exactly that exactly what is required.
Tantric massages for that reason frequently take a really surprising course. Whatever fits into a bigger whole. For example, a tantric massage does not constantly need to be "great", ending in happiness. A "stopped working" massage can be the very first action in a terrific advancement.
How to get the very best from your tantric massage
Always with regard to limitations
We knew it for a very long time, obviously, but given that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have turned up in the world of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who require their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage. The security of both giver and receiver constantly must be guaranteed. Caring attunement constantly precedes.
Set clear borders beforehand
It is a misconception that a tantric massage should always be naked, nonsense. With clothing on is likewise totally okay (though hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have actually given/received many tantric massages just on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let flow easily
Activating and releasing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the primary part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the whole body takes part and erotic zones can likewise be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ psychological/ passionate/ love/ development/ instinctive energy.
Focused on the natural thrilled state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage is part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a really practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life intended at growing in love and awareness. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is one of them.
Generally leading to a fantastic physical, psychological well-being
This is also the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is normally nice, often scrumptious. We, for that reason, invite you to fully take pleasure in receiving ánd providing a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are lots of types of massage. Naturally, all massages have specific practices and techniques in typical. Yet there is a huge difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (focused on pleasure satisfaction).
* (Body) treatment (aimed at recovery).
Relaxation is a fundamental part of tantric massage, but of a totally different order than relaxation massage Why? Well due to the fact that you are actually extremely energetic during/after the massage. You do not go to sleep (unless you are extremely tired), you are extremely alert and conscious! A tantra massage is NOT a sensual massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research or sexual satisfaction, we would call it various. Tantra massage is certainly not a treatment! It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, but treatment is a profession apart. Tantra massage certainly has healing results, but that is not an end in itself.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For a comprehensive description, see the post on the basics of tantric massage. In summary, the following fundamentals stick out:
Tantra massage tips-- before you begin
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Supply good conditions (physically, but likewise mentally).
* Make clear contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage tips-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is demand totally free, do not push or require anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the whole body.
* Do not just use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every so often ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Take pleasure in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Offer feedback (satisfaction noises?).
* Build in combination (rest) minutes.
A tantra massage is not a work task, so as a provider you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Once again, do not try to impose anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You might not be waiting for a psychological cry, but a tantric massage has no goal.
Tantra massage suggestions-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Understand that a tantric massage can have an effect for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not right away go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage tips useful reference (insights/rules).
* Do not work to a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it normally is but there is no pressure for you to perform, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Respect limits, set clear borders ahead of time. Our masseuses are mainly really open minded - they are naturally because of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, obviously. Know that it can turn out differently.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Energize the whole body. Being excited is normal and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are crucial! A lot can come up.
* Look out to renewed freezing minutes. Avoid limits from being crossed once again.
* Step by action becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. However beware: no sex! Practice makes best. Enjoying the restored balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. satisfaction noises) and provide integration moments (just doing absolutely nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage occur?
Do not discharge, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we mean don't rush towards the climatic ending, hold it, remain in the moment, let that sexual energy develop and flood your entire body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Gives peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and relaxed (but you will not drop off to sleep). During/after the massage it ends up being peaceful in your head (sometimes completely empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully flowing life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a possible recovery impact. Even though tantra massage is not the same as healing, this release may heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more caring, you discover what it is like to like yourself.
Is delighting in.
You will feel comfy in your body. The mix of relaxation and a great deal of energy suggests that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love transformation, you might become not only cheerful however even joyous. A happy state of being is possible. The more you give up, the much better you will feel.
In short, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Full of attention and existence.
* The whole body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic form, without predefined outcome.
* With regard to (mutual) borders.
* Establishes a (heart) connection in between the provider and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, delighted state of being of the recipient.
* Typically resulting in a terrific physical, mental well-being (of both).